Sexual fantasies of men
Men all over the world have prevalent sexual fantasies. It doesn't matter what country he's from or what language he speaks or even how old he is. Men are pretty much the same around the world. And it's not an insult or a boring at all. It shows that men's standard for sex is almost universal.
So let's dive into this article and see what men imagine when they think of their perfect fantasy sexual encounters.
Threesomes with two women
Two women at the same time is a very common fantasy. To be so manly that he can satisfy two women at once is a big part of the male imagination. Sometimes twins are in this fantasy, even though most men are against incest. Usually, the encounters also take place at a nice hotel and not their own homes. Threesomes with strangers mean that the women in their fantasies are strangers that he happened to find and was able to make them want him. Only in bisexual men does the fantasy of him with a woman and another man happen.
Sex outside
It's spontaneous, it's naughty, and it's also illegal. Having sex outside is another popular fantasy that is easy to perform if you find the right spot. Many couples find places in secluded parks, beaches at night, the (clean) bathrooms of restaurants and clubs, and even in cars, both parked and in the middle of traffic. Men also like public sex because they don't have to wait to get home to have sex. One of the most popular areas for men to have sex is their office or place of work. Some even want to have sex on their boss' desk.
Dominant woman
A man's role in the bedroom is that he is supposed to take control and lead the woman. While many couples do still exercise this dynamic more or less in the bedroom, some men don't want to take the lead. They crave attention and commands from a woman who knows her way around the bedroom. This fantasy can range from their wife or girlfriend taking charge once in a while so mix up their routine. Or it can reach to a full sexual encounter with a dominatrix who spanks him when he's done something wrong and doesn't allow him to orgasm without her permission. This fantasy stems from men having to take command all day, from their jobs to their finances, and life. So they want to take a break from being in charge and want to be lead.
Blowjobs
Yes, blowjobs. You definitely weren't surprised by this one. Even though men do get blowjobs often, it is still a fantasy for them because it feels so good. Men love blowjobs and often ask for them the moment they feel like they can convince a woman to give them one. Men love to receive blowjobs because it makes them feel like all of the attention is on them. They also don't have to do any intense sexual work like penetration and keeping rhythm while not orgasming too soon. They can just let go and get lost in pleasure.
BDSM
BDSM is an umbrella term for people who engage in sex that involves more control and trust than regular vanilla sex doesn't cross. It pushes the limits of sexuality and allows some fear and control loss to be embraced, not shunned or avoided. Some of these activities can include domination, submission, breathplay, intense roleplay, sexual surrender, sleep sex, and so much more. When you engage in BDSM, you must have several discussions beforehand, establishing boundaries and limits, safewords to stop having sex if someone no longer feels comfortable, and what both parties can expect from BDSM sex.
Roleplay
Roleplaying is a significant fantasy among both men and women. And there are so many scenarios a couple can choose from. There' schoolgirl and teacher, CIA agent and president, mechanic and woman who needs help fixing her pipes, priest, and nun, etc. The list can go on for quite a few pages. Some men like their women to dress up for the part. Then men might dress up too, and they can act out a full scenario that ends in sex. Roleplay is popular because it allows men to be creative and imaginative in their sexual lives. And pretending their wife is a different person for the night is much better than cheating on her.
Watching their women masturbate
You might not have expected this one. Why would a man watch his woman masturbate when he can join her and have sex? Watching their wife or girlfriends pleasure themselves in front of their eyes is a show for them. They like that their woman is comfortable enough to allow them to watch, and she knows to pleasure herself to thoughts of him. Sometimes they masturbate while they are watching her as a substitute for porn that is real and not behind a monitor. They might even record her masturbating and watch it later when she is away or out of the house.
In conclusion
Fantasies are one of the ways men express their sexuality, and they should not be denied this. Now, whether or not a man or woman wants to engage in these fantasies is another matter. Many people have fantasies that they never want to participate in, but thinking about it turns them on. But if you ever decide to pursue a fantasy actively, make sure to talk with the person you will be sharing this experience with and create safewords and boundaries ahead of time. No matter what kind of sex you're having, be sure that parties are consenting enthusiastically. Sometimes, men are thought to be brainless and enjoy all sex, so they won't ever turn sex down. But men don't have to have sex if they don't want to. They need their wants and desires to be respected as we would regard a woman's.
